Tuesday, October 26, 2010

how to be a good man to your woman

hello!

through i lack experience in this field, i just want to give my opinion on what women secretly wish their men would do for them.
this is based on what i see in dramas, what i hear from friends and families and of course, personal feelings :D
the sequence is not according to order :)

Defend and stand up for his girl

common sense, of course guys would want to defend his girl, but it needs courage. and gut.



Know how to control ego

I think this is a huge problem nowadays. Ego always gets in the way. I mean, I know you can't get rid of it, but just lessen it, maybe? You don't want your beautiful relationship go to waste just cause your ego is too big.


Don't act macho all the time

OMG, I think guys don't realize this but they look super cute when they're shy! Macho is good, but show other feelings as well :D


Know when to say sorry

Which girl doesn't love a guy whose manly enough to admit he's wrong and say sorry?


Loyal

In general, loyalty is important in every relationship. But when a guy can stay loyal to his girl, its really touching :D



Take care of his wife

For married guys, it'll be so sweet if he would take care of his wife when she's sick. I mean, I've realized in almost all the korean dramas I've watched, there's always a scene where the guy will take care of the girl. And girls will always wish their future/current husband would do that for them :D



Help the wife


THIS IS A MUST especially if the wife is also working or has children. The wife might not complain, and the husband will feel it is his wife's job to do chores and take care of the child, but once in a while, help your wife. Lessen her burden :D


Listen to your girl

Some guys feel that its not cool to listen to your girl. But just remember this, the girl cares for you and wants whats best for you. So try to listen to her once in a while.



Style

Alright, not everyone was born with good looks, but that'll disappear over time. Style lasts. So be stylish for your girlfriend/wife. It'll make the girl feel appreciated when you want her to see the best of you, in all ways :)


the guy in the pictures above is Jeon Jin Ho acted by the lovely Lee Min Ho from the korean drama Personal Taste :D

chao!
kalau ade silap, harap maaf XD

7 comments:

Unknown said...

fanatik!! haha

Amy Bahri said...

sumpah LIKE gileee wehh! eh,jemput dtg time aku kawen ngan Jin Ho! :P

cheery said...

OK.
aku salute lah kau buat entry ni.
tp yang aku tak paham apsal sume picture actor korea je ni????hahaha.

irisyah kau dh addicted eh.woohoo!XD

bay said...

one more additional point,
A guy has to have the look of 'Jin Ho'...sbb iris dh addicted!!! ;D
tekan button like sket :P

aintch said...

whoooaaaa like it so much:D

aqilah said...

HAHA.siyes setuju;DD

anyone yang bersedia??;P

Irisy said...

eida: well... hehehe :D

aimi: eleh! suami aku k. :P

khaty: actually, aku saje je buat post ni. function die nk ltk gbr mamat tu byk2 je. gedik kn aku ni? :D
haha... addicted skit je la! :P

bay: haha. like! :D

ain: hehe. thanks!

muhammin: haha. cube la cari. tpi mungkin kau dh jmpe? :P